Tag: Florida Parenting Plans

Divorce and child custody issues are already difficult enough without also having to address the issue of relocation after divorce. Depending upon the specific circumstances surrounding the relocation, it could very well affect the amount of time a parent spends with their child. For these reasons, it is important to understand what Florida law dictates when it comes to parental relocation after timesharing and parenting plans have already been finalized.

When one parent plans to relocate, parents often find themselves in court in order to find some resolution, as, especially when that relocation involves long distance, it can be very difficult to come to some consensus on what is best for both the child and the parents. This warrants working with an experienced family law attorney if you are dealing with this issue, as states have different laws in place when it comes to the issue.

Florida law defines relocation as a change in the location of the principal residence of a parent or other person from their principal place of residence at the time of the last order establishing or modifying time-sharing, or at the time any action to establish or modify time-sharing was filed. In order for it to technically be considered relocating, the change of location must be at least 50 miles from the principal residence of a parent (for at least 60 days; in other words, this does not include a simple vacation).

Anyone who has gone through (or is currently going through) divorce and has children knows that one of the primary concerns is the well-being of their children and how they will get through it. Change can be especially harsh on children, especially during stages when routines are so important to their development. According to the experts, what type of response the child has can depend upon whether they are in childhood or adolescence; where divorce can sometimes increase a child’s dependence and regression, while increasing an adolescent’s independence and aggression.

That being said, there are actions you can take to help provide the support that children need during times of divorce, such as:

Communication

Encourage your children to be honest with you and articulate what they are feeling. Be a good listener and ask questions.

In addition, maintaining a good relationship with your ex and avoiding conflict can help avoid the stress that children sometimes internalize when they are exposed to that conflict, or when they feel pressured to pass messages back and forth. Children can also internalize hurt when they feel like they need to take sides and “pick” a parent’s side during times of conflict.